Further questions came in regarding specifically how I felt about it. I was asked if I ever got jealous with women dressing provocatively trying to get close to him. While I notice this behavior occasionally, George is truly oblivious to it. I didn’t believe him at first, but overtime I have realized he is as clueless as he says.
To be quite honest, this was a struggle for me at the beginning of our relationship. I didn’t know George well and I wasn’t sure what the intentions of these ladies were. As our relationship matured, I did in this area as well. I trust my husband whole heartedly. This has been an area of growth for me as I have past issues with trust. George has been so patient with me through my growth and always makes sure I feel comfortable. We have put God at the center of our marriage and that really does make all of the difference in the world. If all it takes is someone dressing provocatively to make someone stray, I would say the relationship probably wasn’t what you thought it was to begin with.
-Dixie Gray-